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Entries from November 1, 2010 - November 30, 2010

Tuesday
Nov302010

Fun with glassware with Jackalope Brewing

Hello again You+Me* readers! We hope you all had a lovely Thanksgiving and even enjoyed some yummy brews with your meals. For this entry we’re leaving beer behind for a little while, but don’t worry, it will be back! Miya and Elisabeth threw the idea out that every month they would send us a picture of a beautiful piece of glassware (one guaranteed to be not look anything like the 27 mis-matched pint glasses I have in my house) and we’d suggest something appropriately wonderful and alcoholic that could go in said glass, so I am going to tackle this inaugural piece. I asked if they’d send us the actual glasses, you know for research purposes, but no such luck. Which is sad because I really like this glass. Here’s what we were working with this month:


Oooooooh! Fancy right? Here’s a fun fact about me: I love brandy glasses but really don’t like brandy, so what’s a girl to do? I say break the rules and don’t drink brandy out of it. Bold, I know. Fun fact number two about me: I really hate eggnog, so I’m always on the look out for other festive drinks that say “Holidays!” without me having to choke down the ‘nog. I think this drink (from who else? Martha) combines my love of brandy glasses and my desire for alternative holiday drinks perfectly:

2 cups of chilled pear nectar
2 cups of chilled sparkling cider
2 cups of chilled seltzer
4 ounces of bourbon whiskey
1 Bosc pear peeled, cored and cut into 8 slices

Stir together pear nectar, cider, seltzer and whiskey in some adorable pitcher. Put the pear slices in the beautiful brandy snifters (much cuter than Martha's choices, yes? I love you Martha but those glasses are boring!), pour the drink and enjoy!



Monday
Nov292010

Stop-Motion Video!


Happy Monday, Darlings! Did you see our stop-motion video over on Brooklyn Bride? If not, here it is. Let me tell you: we had an AMAZING time working on this with Trent Bailey Photography. He's such a joy to work with, and we just love collaborating with him on fun stuff like this. If you're curious how we packaged it, head on over to Brooklyn Bride for some packaging how-to (and a free download)!
(p.s. Here's a fun fact: Mike, the groom in this save the date, was one of my bridesmen. It's true! Check it:

Awesome, right?)

Monday
Nov292010

The Monday After

Hello, friends! We hope you had an absolutely fantastic Thanksgiving weekend. It's always hard to jump back into work after a long weekend, so we won't tell your boss if you decide to ease your way in by sipping on a fancy coffee drink and indulging in some blog reading.


As we've mentioned before, for the rest of the holiday season, we'll be posting on YOU + ME* Holiday on Mondays and Fridays. Today, we've gathered up some gift wrapping goodness for your enjoyment (after all, you have to do something with all of your Black Friday scores). Today's post is also a part of our Un-Gift Guide, which means it's about more than just pretty packaging.


Did you happen to see Brooklyn Bride last Wednesday? If so, you would have seen the inspiration board for our stop motion save the date with the fantastic Trent of Trent Bailey Photography (just a little peek above). Hop on over there today and you can see the full video.

Enjoy your Monday!

Thursday
Nov252010

Queenie Cooks: Latkes!

Even though I'm half-Jewish by descent (the paternal half), I didn't grow up celebrating Hanukkah, aside from the macaroni-and-glitter adorned dreidls I made in art class. My dad wasn't terribly religious, and the pull of my mom's Episcopalian family's picture-perfect New England Christmas was irresistible to all of us, I think. And so, it wasn't until I was in my 20s and living alone that I started to make latkes with any kind of regularity.

Latkes, along with doughnuts, their sweet compatriots, are traditional Hanukkah fare. Why, you ask? Because Hanukkah is that most wonderful of holidays, the one at which we celebrate fried food.

Okay, okay - so, technically, we're celebrating the miracle of the oil that burned in the temple's lamps for eight whole days following its re-dedication to the God of Israel (full story here). But you know what you do with oil when you want to feature it on a holiday table? (All Jewish holidays requiring an accompanying feast, of course.) Fry crap in it. Duh!

Hence latkes, hence doughnuts, hence awesomeness. Now, traditionally, latkes are made with potatoes (typically russet), usually accompanied by some combination of grated onion, beaten egg, and possibly a little flour. They are delicious little nuggets of potato goodness, made even better by the addition of sour cream and apple sauce.

Lately, in an effort to bring a little variety and color to the Hanukkah table, people have been roping in other vegetables for latke duty. Today, I'll be calling on zucchini, in all its ridiculous goodness, to make little latke-like fritters.

In a simultaneous nod to and twist on tradition, I've topped my potato latkes with a favorite apple-cranberry chutney of mine. The zucchini latkes are served with creme fraiche (the snooty version of sour cream) and a healthy dose of gremolata, the traditional Italian condiment made of minced lemon zest, garlic and parsley. That said, you should feel free to mix it up - I'd be lying if I said I didn't try the creme fraiche and gremolata with the potato latke, and lying even more if I told you it wasn't awesome. (Like a sour cream and chive potato chip taken to new heights.)

However you choose to serve your latkes, I just hope you give them a go. You'll be pleasantly surprised, I think, by how easy they are to make, and by how easily they please a crowd - even at a Christmas party! (Especially good news for halfsies like me.) Hankkah starts on December 1st, though, so there's no need to delay.

Note: This recipe involves deep-fat frying, which means you definitely need the right thermometer. You might also want a splatter screen to place over the skillet in between flipping the latkes. You can get both pieces of equipment for really reasonable prices; try this thermometer and this screen.

Potato Latkes
Adapted from Gourmet

1 medium white onion
3 lbs. russet potatoes (about 6 potatoes), peeled and submerged in cold water
2 tsp. lemon juice
1/3 cup flour
3 large eggs, lightly beaten
Canola oil, for frying

Using the large holes on a box grater (or the shredder attachment for your food processor), grate the onion and then the potatoes into a large bowl. Stir in the lemon juice. Stir in the flour, then add the eggs and stir to coat evenly.

Transfer the mixture to a colander set over a bowl to release some of the juices.

Pre-heat the oven to 200 degrees Fahrenheit. (Depending on your oven, this might mean the "warm" setting.) Meanwhile, heat about 1/4 inch of oil in a large, flat-bottomed skillet to 360 degrees Fahrenheit over medium heat. (I used my 12-inch straight-sided skillet.)

Once the oil is hot, use a quarter-cup measure to scoop out individual latkes into the oil. Use a fork or the back of the measuring cup to flatten the pancakes a bit. (They should be about three to four inches across.) Fry the pancakes in batches of four to six, cooking for about three minutes per side, or until the latkes turn golden brown. Turn them using a fish spatula, if you have one.

Once the latkes are cooked, transfer them to a paper towel-lined cookie sheet and place the cookie sheet in the oven until all the latkes are done and you're ready to eat!

You can also cool the latkes completely on the cookie sheet, then freeze them for up to two weeks. Re-heat them in a 450 degree oven for about 5 minutes before serving.

Makes about 20 latkes.

Zucchini Latkes
Adapted from Gourmet

3 lbs. zucchini, stem ends removed
1 1/4 cups plain, fine dry breadcrumbs
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1/2 tsp. dried thyme
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
Canola oil, for frying

Using the large holes on a box grater (or the shredder attachment for your food processor), grate the zucchini into a large bowl. Toss the zucchini with two teaspoons of salt and let sit for 30 minutes.

Working in batches, squeeze the zucchini dry in a kitchen towel and transfer to another large bowl. Stir in the bread crumbs, eggs, thyme, 1/4 tsp. salt and a few turns of freshly ground black pepper.

Pre-heat the oven to 200 degrees Fahrenheit. (Depending on your oven, this might mean the "warm" setting.) Meanwhile, heat about 1/4 inch of oil in a large, flat-bottomed skillet until it shimmers. (I cooled down the oil I used for the potato latkes, then re-heated it for these.)

Scoop two tablespoons of the zucchini mixture to form each pancake, flattening them a bit with a fork. You can make 6-8 pancakes per batch. Fry the pancakes until golden brown, about 2 minutes per side. Transfer to a paper towel-lined baking sheet and keep them warm until serving.

Makes about 35 latkes.

Apple-Cranberry Relish
Adapted from Gourmet

2 lbs. sweet-tart apples, such as Gala or Honeycrisp, peeled, cored and cut into 3/4 inch chunks
1 medium onion, cut into one-inch pieces
2/3 cup dark brown sugar
1/2 cup fresh orange juice
3 tbs. unsalted butter, melted
2 tsp. mustard seeds
1/4 tsp. ground ginger
1/8 tsp. ground cloves
1/2 lb. fresh cranberries

Place the oven rack in the top third of the oven and pre-heat to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. Stir all ingredients - except the cranberries - together in a shallow glass baking dish until evenly mixed. Spread out into an even layer.

Place the baking dish in the oven and roast the mixture, stirring it every 10 minutes or so, for 45 minutes to an hour, until the apples are well-softened. Remove the dish from the oven and stir in the cranberries.

Return the dish to the oven for another 15 to 20 minutes, until the cranberries have softened and most of the liquid has been absorbed. Serve warm or at room temperature.

Chutney keeps well for up to three days. Cool completely, then cover with plastic wrap and store in the fridge.

Gremolata

1 lemon
1/4 cup parsley, minced
3 cloves garlic, minced
Pinch of salt

Remove the zest (just the zest - not the bitter, white pith) from the lemon using a vegetable peeler, then mince it as finely as possible with a knife. Combine in a small bowl with the parsley, garlic and salt.

Wednesday
Nov242010

Wednesday Miscellany!

Well, darling readers, I have a confession to make--Wednesdays are my favorite posts to write. I leave windows open in my browser just because I want to remember to include stuff when it's my turn to take Wednesdays. And we've got some really good stuff lined up for you today.
We know it's on everyone's minds (and lips, and screens), but the rue issue #2 came out on Sunday night, and oh my goodness, the rue team brought it! Cover-to-cover gorgeousness. And wouldn't you know it, our pals Trent Bailey Photography and Poppies and Posies are contributors this month! Kudos, kittens!


Speaking of Poppies and Posies, did you see their camp-themed wedding? I ran across the images on facebook (did you know you can like us on facebook, too?), and let me tell you: you need to check out their blog to see the full set. Here's a teaser, shot by Jen Huang Photography
I KNOW, right!?!

Elisabeth and I are prepping for a shoot that is going to knock your proverbial socks off, and I came across these shoes by Vans.

I've had a burning love for Vans since middle school, so I guess this makes this the longest-term romantic relationship I've ever had (don't tell Jordy). And with these shoes, we just renewed our vows, Heidi and Seal-style.

And also,

- Be sure to send us your slideshows, and we'll post them tomorrow. Even if you don't want it posted, we'd still love to see it if you feel like sharing. Here's mine in case you missed it on Holiday:

There's a how-to and free downloads of the first and last slides right here.

-Love the vintage cakestands in this shop.
-Love this print.
-Love that this bride is grinning her face off.
-Love unexpected features on super awesome blogs.

Elisabeth and I will have slideshows up on Holiday tomorrow, but other than that, we'll be taking tomorrow and Friday off to enjoy our families and relax a bit. We'll see you right back here on Monday, when our super secret project with Trent Bailey (he who got to shoot Bunny Williams for rue) will hit Brooklyn Bride. We can't wait to share.
We are wishing you and yours a warm, happy, and memorable Thanksgiving. We can't even begin to tell you how grateful we are for you. xoxo

Tuesday
Nov232010

Making Guests Feel At Home

Dear YOU + ME*,

We seem to have a parade of guests rotating through our small home between now and the new year. I can offer them a tiny bedroom (really, it's my office, but a daybed with a trundle makes it a semi-guest room), a shared bathroom, and a home-cooked meal. This is such a busy time of year, but I want our guests to feel welcome. Is there anything else I can do to make them feel at home?

Thanks,
H.

Dear H.,

There mere fact that all these people are clamoring to stay with you despite your small digs suggests that you are already the hostess with the mostess, but we'll give you some tips just for fun.

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The very first one may seem kind of silly, but I actually think it's the most important. Sleep in your guest room for one night. You see, there are all these little things about a space that you don't realize unless you spend the night there. Maybe the sound of your clock ticking, though barely discernible during the day, is unbearably loud in the stillness of the night. Maybe there is nowhere to rest a glass of water, or you have to walk across a dark room after turning the light off for bed. Of course these things aren't the end of the world, but spending a night in your guests' shoes makes it easy for you to make their stay comfortable.

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Whenever I expect overnight visitors, I try to anticipate their morning food and drink preferences. Even people who happily try every new thing that crosses their path, tend to stick with a predictable routine first thing in the morning. There is something so fortifying about that cup of coffee prepared just the way you like it or the green smoothie you drink every morning without fail.  If you know people well enough for them to be staying in your home, you probably have an idea of what they like in the morning, but if not, you can always ask in advance or point them to the variety of options you have on hand. This doesn't mean you have to prepare a breakfast buffet, rather it's about making your kitchen a comfortable place for your guests to carry out their typical morning routines.

Malin + Goetz
Finally, keep a little box of toiletries and over the counter medications stocked for guests (if I receive trial size or sample products, I usually put them right in the box) and make sure to mention that they should just help themselves if they need anything. It's always a little bit awkward to have to bother your host because you forgot a razor, your moisturizer got confiscated by the TSA, or your stomach is slightly upset.

These suggestions don't take a lot of time or money, but they do show your guests that you put some thought into making their stay comfortable. How about you, dear readers? What do you do to make your home welcoming for houseguests?

xo,
ME*


If you have a question, you'd like us to answer, do drop us a line at hello[at]youplusmestyling[at]gmail[dot]com.

Monday
Nov222010

Happy Monday!

Hi lovelies,
Put on your glitteriest, spangliest, most sequiny outfit and head on over to Holiday, where I've gathered some non-alcoholic drinks for the adults' table. We hope you're having a fun-filled Monday, and we'll see you right back here tomorrow!
xo,
m

Friday
Nov192010

Happy Friday!

Hello friends. Aren't you excited for the weekend? We'll be moving my sister into an apartment a few floors above ours, preparing for visitors arriving on Tuesday, and doing some of the prep work for Thanksgiving. May I suggest laying out your serving dishes with little notes indicating what should go in them and making a cooking schedule?

Toasted Oatmeal and Bruleed Oatmeal from Martha Stewart
 Oh, and make sure you have an easy and wholesome breakfast on hand for Thursday, so you don't pass out before the turkey even makes it out of the oven. I think we'll be going with baked oatmeal (this recipe is similar to how I make it, though I usually use just a smidge of maple syrup instead of sugar and sometimes I throw in a couple whisked eggs for protein).

Are you visiting someone else for Thanksgiving? Even if you're going to your parents' house, we know you'd never show up empty handed. Here are some suggestions for host/hostess gifts that will make you a welcome guest:


 Small, inexpensive gifts

The very best of hostess gifts




  When it's time to meet the parents

Thoughtful goodies and tasty treats are lovely, but the best host/hostess gift you could give on Thanksgiving is a slide show of wonderful memories (though a photo book of past Thanksgivings would be pretty great as well) . It could be filled with photos of the family and friends you're celebrating with from the past year, images of the various things you're thankful for, or pictures from Thanksgivings past. You could even put a call out for multiple slide shows and have a post-dinner viewing party.

Miya posted instructions for how to put a slide show together using iphoto and included a pretty starting and ending image for your downloading pleasure right here. If you send us your slide show before Thanksgiving day, we'll post some that day (because you guys are one of the things we're thankful for!).

And finally, time is running out to sign up for our Spread the Cheer gift exchange. We have some fantastically creative people signed up already, so we can guarantee you'll have fun with this.  

Have an lovely weekend!

Thursday
Nov182010

Variations on a Theme: Carrot Oat Cookies

Now, hear me out, everyone, before you get all "I can't BELIEVE she's posting that hippie BS right before Thanksgiving" on me.

I like my butter and stuffing (mmm, stuffing) and pie as much as the next girl, but there are tons of recipes out there for all of that stuff. Right around Thanksgiving, my life starts getting busy. Like, "Wow, it's already 5pm and I haven't eaten today" busy. These cookies are perfect to pack up and tuck away in your purse for when you're on the subway platform and are struck with a case of the ohmygoodnessineedtoeatNOWs. I can be a picky eater, especially when I've reached the point of extreme hunger (weird, I know), so finding something out and about that suits my fancy can sometimes be difficult.
These are vegan with no processed sugar, and are made with whole grains. Plus, they're super yummy, so it's a good bet that one of these will be just right for a snack on the go. Jordy loves it when I pack these, not because he likes to eat them (which he does), but because it guarantees that I won't turn into the hunger-induced monster who I've been known to become when I've waited a little too long to eat. I adapted this recipe from 101 Cookbooks, and these have been in heavy rotation with multiple variations ever since. Here are my two favorites. I've also been known to make these with sweet potato (be sure to mush out some of the moisture and use a little less sweetener).

Carrot Spice Cookies
Ingredients:
1 cup whole grain pastry flour
1 cup oats
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon nutmeg
1/2 cup unsweetened shredded coconut (if you have a fresh coconut laying around, you can shred it with your handy microplane grater)
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup shredded carrots
1/2 cup shredded zucchini
1/2 cup agave nectar
scant 1/2 cup olive oil
juice of 1/2 lemon
zest from 1/2 lemon

Directions:
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.  Line two baking sheets with silpats or parchment paper.
In a large bowl, mix the flour, oats, baking powder, coconut, cinnamon, and nutmeg, and then stir in the carrots and zucchini.  In a smaller bowl, whisk together the agave nectar, olive oil, and lemon zest and juice.  Pour the wet ingredients into the dry, and stir until mixed.
Drop the batter by rounded teaspoonfulls onto your baking sheet, and bake in the top 1/2 of the oven for 12-15 minutes, or until the tops and bottoms are golden brown. 

Carrot Coconut Cookies
Ingredients
1 cup whole wheat pastry flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
scant 1/2 teaspoon fine grain sea salt
1 cup rolled oats
2/3 cup shredded coconut
1 cup shredded carrots
1/2 cup agave nectar, room temperature
1/2 cup unrefined (fragrant) coconut oil, warmed until just melted
1 teaspoon grated fresh ginger

Directions:
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.  Line two baking sheets with silpats or parchment paper.
In a large bowl, mix the flour, oats, baking powder, and coconut, and then stir in the carrots.  In a smaller bowl, whisk together the agave nectar and coconut oil.  Pour the wet ingredients into the dry, and stir until mixed.
Drop the batter by rounded teaspoonfulls onto your baking sheet, and bake in the top 1/2 of the oven for 12-15 minutes, or until the tops and bottoms are golden brown.  

Have a lovely Thursday, everyone! Be sure to sign up for our Spread the Cheer gift exchange (time's running out!), and keep sending in your Thanksgiving slideshows!

Wednesday
Nov172010

Wednesday Miscellany

Hello, hello. Thank goodness it's Wednesday. While sitting in the Apple Store waiting for my computer to get fixed at 9AM Monday morning, I turned to my sister and said, "wait, it's only Monday, isn't it?" For a moment there, I was convinced it was the end of the week. I think I'm just getting excited about Thanksgiving--only a little more than a week until one of my favorite holidays arrives!

Speaking of Thanksgiving, we have some tips for making the day special on Holiday:
Recipe Resource Guide
Giving Thanks Slideshow Inspiration--Send yours in and we'll post it on Thanksgiving
Adding some extra fun to your day

When I need a distraction from planning our feast, here are some of the things that have been keeping me busy:

Scout and Catalogue

The dreamy photography may have a little something to do with it, but it's the hand-dyed Mexican textiles and gorgeous leather goods that are making me swoon over Scout and Catalogue (found via Wit + Delight).

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First read this and then tell me you don't want to run out and buy the book from your local independent bookseller. Sure, we can't all be as elegantly wasted in real life, but that doesn't make it any less fun to read about it.

 If I must be afraid of the dark to get these ceramic nightlights by Wendy Jung, then you'll find me cowering in the corner.

Hooray! I loved this show. I'm so glad it's coming back for a second season.

Oh, and time is running out to sign up for the Spread the Cheer gift exchange. Wouldn't it be fun to watch the handmade treats trickle in during the first weeks of December?