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Entries from October 1, 2010 - October 31, 2010

Friday
Oct292010

Cozy Couple's Shower

Good Morning! We hope you all are having a happy Friday, and that your weekend is filling up with good plans (or no plans if that's what you're hoping for). We're so excited to have our cozy couples' shower up on Brooklyn Bride this morning! Here are a few more pictures:










Aren't Mike and Amber the cutest? And the photos are stunning, right? Thanks, Trent Bailey Photography! We had so many wonderful, talented folks help us out with this shower--you can see them all on our "Featured Vendors" page. And here's a list, too:


Photography: Trent Bailey Photography
Desserts (fig cake, canele, leaf cookies, chocolate and caramel dipped pears): Cake Hero
Florals: Blossom and Branch
Couple series pillow: K Studio
Gray knit poncho: Wai
Knit scarves and bows (on packages): Emmadime
Burlap bags and other wrapping supplies: Olive Manna
Wreath and felt bows: ItzFitz

Elisabeth and I have our noses to the grindstone today for a big announcement on Monday (and some other fun stuff in the works, too!), so I'm off to go have my morning cuppa (or three). Have a wonderful weekend, everyone! We'll see you right back here on Monday morning!

Thursday
Oct282010

Brooklyn Bride!

So we've been dying to tell you this, and now we can! We're beyond thrilled to be joining the guest contributors over at Brooklyn Bride. Our first shoot is the cozy shower that we worked on with an amazing cast of characters (more on that tomorrow). You can check out our inspiration over on Brooklyn Bride today, and be sure to keep an eye out for our cozy shower tomorrow!

Thursday
Oct282010

Queenie Cooks: Herbed Quinoa with Roasted Acorn Squash

[From Miya: Hi friends! We have a huge treat in store for you today (didn't I tell you we would?). Please give your warmest welcome to my dear, dear friend Meg, who is a fantastic cook, great writer, and amazing friend. Meg's blog and photography have been featured by Food52, Serious Eats, Apartment Therapy and The Internet Food Association. And her apartment is amazing. Here was her entry into Apartment Therapy's Small Cool contest in 2009 (do you like the pics? Meg plied me with pastries, and I took them for her). To top it all off, she mixes a mean Manhattan. Do you adore her already? I told you you would!
Meg will be joining us every two weeks to share a special, just for You + ME*, recipe with us. We've asked her to skew fairly healthy and vegetarian, which she does exceptionally well, but you would all be remiss not to check out the rest of her recipes over at Queenie Takes Manhattan. So without further ado, here is my dear friend Meg, giving us some ridiculous dinner inspiration.]
Hey, You + ME* readers! I cannot tell you how excited I am to be part of Miya & Elisabeth's community of contributors. I think we're going to have loads of delicious adventures together over the coming months, don't you?

When Miya asked me to contribute to You + ME* Equals, I knew exactly what I wanted to share with you guys. I'd been thinking for a few weeks about how the cooler weather makes me crave the nutty satisfaction of whole grains and the richness of roasted vegetables. As a result, I'd been dreaming about a mash-up of herbed quinoa and roasted squash.

Quinoa is a seed, similar to a grain. It's teeny and round and has a little white membrane thing that sounds gross, but really isn't. Thanks to its remarkable nutritional content, it's one of the oldest cultivated crops on earth, even though it never really took off in Europe (due, in possible part, to the naturally bitter coating you have to rinse off before cooking). It has an extremely high protein content and is naturally gluten-free. Just those two things alone pretty much explain its recent surge in popularity.

But, most importantly, it's also delicious. Quinoa is, as I mentioned, extremely nutty in flavor, and cooks up light and fluffy - but can also take on a creamy, risotto-like quality if cooked slowly and gently. Really, it's a great chameleon, perfect for pairing with braised dishes or tossing into salads.

The recipe I'm sharing with you today takes advantage of that warm flavor and ease of cooking. Like any other grain, quinoa does a bit better when you hit it with a little herbal goodness, so I threw in sage (also a natural partner to the squash) and thyme (since, um, I have it growing on my windowsill). You might think about rosemary here, or even a shower of fresh chives at the end. (In my opinion, chives are never a mistake.)

As for the squash, well, how can you celebrate the arrival of fall without paying tribute to its signature vegetable? This recipe would work equally well with butternut squash, or even pumpkin - whatever's available at your local farmers' market is what's best. Roasting squash is one of the easiest things you can ever do, and the slightly smooshy texture of the finished product plays wonderfully against the fluffy quinoa.

And so, without further ado, here goes! I hope you enjoy the recipe, and I can't wait to see you back here in two weeks' time!

Herbed Quinoa with Roasted Acorn Squash

1 small corn squash, about 1 pound
Olive oil
Kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper
6 sage leaves
1 small shallot, finely chopped
1 clove garlic, thinly sliced
1/2 cup quinoa, rinsed one or twice in cold water
1/4 cup white wine
1 cup water or vegetable stock
2 or 3 sprigs thyme
1/4 cup finely grated parmesan cheese, plus more for garnish

Preheat the oven to 375 degrees Fahrenheit. Cover a small cookie sheet in aluminum foil.

Slice the stem off of the squash and slice it in half, lengthwise. Use a large spoon to scoop out the seeds. Slice the halves into three wedges each, and place the wedges on the baking sheet. Drizzle the squash with olive oil and sprinkle with about 1/2 teaspoon of salt and a healthy amount of pepper. Place a single sage leaf in the center of each wedge.

Bake the squash in the preheated oven until tender, about 20 minutes. Meanwhile, in a 2-4 quart saucepan, heat about 1 1/2 teaspoons of the olive oil over medium heat. Once hot, add the shallots and garlic and saute for about two minutes, until the shallot is translucent and the garlic is fragrant.

Add the quinoa to the pot and lightly salt it. Toast the quinoa in the oil and shallots for a couple of minutes, until it smells nutty. Add the wine to the pan and stir, mixing it well into the quinoa. Allow the mixture to cook down for a minute or so, then add the water or stock.

Reduce the heat to medium-low and cover the pan, cooking the quinoa at a simmer. Continue to cook for 10-15 minutes, or until the membranes begin to pull away from the grains.

Once the squash is done (you can tell by poking it with a knife; if the knife slides right on in, the squash is ready), take it out of the oven and set it aside until it is cool enough to handle with your hands. Cut the flesh away from the peel and slice it into 1-inch chunks. Place it (and the roasted sage leaves) in a large bowl. Add the leaves from the sprigs of thyme.

As soon as the quinoa is done cooking, add it (hot) to the squash, along with a healthy drizzle of olive oil and a good amount of salt and pepper. Toss everything together until well-mixed, then mix in the parmesan. To serve, divide between plates and top with a bit more cheese. The salad can be served warm or at room temperature.

Serves two as a main course and four as a side.

Wednesday
Oct272010

Happy Hump Day!

Whew, Wednesday! It's been a pretty busy week for us here, but we're hanging in there and powering through like champs. How about you? Everyone holding up okay? Let's get on with the goodness, shall we? Here's some miscellany that would be appropriate for all of those brides and grooms out there, but also appropriate for you non-brides and non-grooms.

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I bet you also determined this when you saw their recipe box that made the rounds a while back, but Rifle Paper Company is on point. That is all.
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Wait, no, that's not all. I've got this zucchini bread in the oven right now--how pretty would this be sliced and tucked into bags as late-night snacks or next-morning gift bags?
 
Cat Eye Eyeglasses, Vintage50sEyewear
Jordy and I are heading to the optometrist on Saturday. My mom is going to be in town(!!!) later this week, so we are taking full advantage of the babysitting to get brunch and get our eyes checked. Hot, right? When they ask me which frames I want, though, you best believe that I will be turning up my nose and heading right home to procure some vintage glasses. Right now, I am feeling these:

 

1950's Hornrimmed Glasses, Ifoundgallery11

Right? I KNOW! If you're a bride who doesn't want to wear contacts, what about getting yourself a cool new pair of vintage glasses for your big day (this is actually a little sneak peek into something we have up our sleeves)?

And furthermore,

This lady is seriously talented. She designed my new tattoo, and her work would be an AMAZING addition to your wedding. She offers custom calligraphy rubber stamps, which would be an easy way to personalize things if you're on a budget.

Shauna and Steven are working on a new collection of these.  One word: plaid! Three words: OMG PLAID YAAAAAAYYY! 

We have a huge treat (literally) coming up tomorrow! We'll tell you more tomorrow, but let's just say we're welcoming another friendly face to the YOU + ME* Equals team, and we think you guys will be besties in no time flat. 

That's all the miscellany for today, lovelies. We're so glad you stopped by. Go out and carpe diem! 






Tuesday
Oct262010

Where To Go? What To Do?

Dear YOU + ME*,

I recently got engaged and my fiance and I are trying to plan the wedding in six short months. We've gotten all the big decisions out of the way (date, location, photographer, caterer), but we haven't thought about the honeymoon AT ALL. His parents have generously offered to supplement our honeymoon budget as a wedding gift, which means we could really plan an amazing trip. The only problem is we're paralyzed with indecision; we have absolutely no idea where we want to go or what we want to do. If we can't commit to something we're going to spend our honeymoon sitting in our tiny New York apartment. Please help!

Thanks,
J.

Dear J.,
First of all, congratulations on your engagement! It sounds like you two have been up to your eyeballs in all things nuptial as of late, so spending a little time focusing on your honeymoon might feel like a real treat. 


The honeymoon gets a lot of build up. Yes, this is your first trip as a Mr. and Mrs., but it is not the be all end all trip of your lifetime together. At least I hope not because you deserve something to look forward to once you settle back into normal life. In fact, I (Elisabeth) can tell you a thing or two about having something to look forward to because my hubby and I took our honeymoon in April . . . three and a half years after we got married.

Auberge de Soleil, Napa Valley

A lot of researching and pondering can happen over three and a half years, so let me spare you some time and share what I learned. It's all about taking the trip that is perfectly suited to you as a couple at this moment in time. Do you find yourselves experiencing a rare confluence of time and money that leaves you considering a luxury train ride through India? Do it, even though it's not typical honeymoon fare (just give yourselves a couple days to sleep in before hopping on a plane, ok?). Do you feel tempted to visit your absolute favorite vacation spot, even though you've been there a million times together or with your families? Book those tickets now. Do you just want to lounge on a beach and have someone serve you cocktails without engaging in even the teensiest bit of sightseeing? You have my permission.


Here's the fun part. You and your hubby to be have an assignment: set aside a whole night, pop open a bottle of champagne, have some nibbles ready (because planning a vacation will give you the munchies), and make sure you each have paper and a pencil. Now each of you should make a list of what pops in your head when you think about your favorite trips together, on your own, and in your dreams. It can have adjectives, places, activities, foods, feelings, etc. When you both slow down with the list making, it's time to compare notes. I can guarantee there will be some similarities seeing as how you two have enough in common to commit your lives to one another. For instance, I know based on years of vacations that my husband and I overlap on long runs, good wine, a natural rather than urban environment, and leisurely meals. Sure, we've taken plenty of fun vacations without those things, but that combination tends to make us both extremely happy (and who wouldn't want to be extremely happy on their honeymoon?). This process works just as well anytime you're planning a trip with the goal of making sure all the travelers have a good experience.


If you go through this whole process and you still find yourselves stuck, take a look at some of this vacation eye candy. They are a combination of places that we've saved because they look intriguing, places we've been, or places that come extremely highly recommended to us by people we trust. They're not exactly budget friendly destinations, but sometimes starting with a pie in the sky vision can help you hone in on what you're really looking for. If you hit a wall, please email us for some more personalized advice. We have lots of it when it comes to travel.

xo,
ME*

p.s. If you, dear readers, have a question you'd like us to tackle, drop us a line at hello{at}youplusmestyling{dot}com.

Monday
Oct252010

Wedding Week

We've got some good wedding-related news up our sleeves, so today, we wanted to share with you our top five wedding inspiration resources that have nothing to do with weddings. Ready? Onward!

Number One: The City Sage. Anne is killing it these days with her posts about fashion and interiors. And though it's not aimed at brides, it's dripping with inspiration. Check out this inspiration board Anne made to showcase AMYCLAIRE. Can't you just see the wedding? Golden autumn light, the bridesmaids in cocoa chiffon, and the reception in a grand old ballroom on Park Avenue? Maybe with a late-night guest appearance by The Big Gay Ice Cream Truck? SOLD.

Number Two: The Selby. Sure, it's about interiors, but it's also about fashion and lifestyle, and putting together eclectic pieces that all come together to show your personality perfectly. Do you want to show your florist in pictures how tin cans can go perfectly with sterling silver? Now you can:
Number Three: Color Collective. Serious prettiness. Are you trying to decide on a wedding palatte? This site has tons of inspiration, and Lauren finds the best photos and sources of color anywhere. You can even use this to prove that pink doesn't have to mean "overtly girly."

Number Four: Gourmet Magazine. It's got info about food. It's got info about travel. It's got info about restaurants. I may be weird saying this, but I LOVE looking at restaurant design. I think that looking at the colors, textures, and use of space with a critical eye can be a big help to those of us putting together anything that requires more than one piece (outfits, rooms, weddings). Can't you just see this restaurant being translated into a modern black, grey, and yellow affair with touches of worn wood and natural elements? You can? ME TOO!

Number Five: Vintage Printable. You guys. This site is nuts. But you can find some really good inspiration (and even images to use) if you dig. Are you into playing cards? And France? What about including a French ace of hearts on your invites? 
Stay tuned for a week-long non-wedding-y wedding extravaganza! See you tomorrow, pretties!

(p.s. Can't wait to see what Tina's cooking up for dinner for the Pretty Mommy Recipe Exchange!)

Friday
Oct222010

Sniffle, Sniffle

I've always prided myself on never getting sick. Throughout my childhood and even through the first few years after college I could go multiple years with nary a sniffle. I could probably count the number of fevers in my lifetime on one hand--no exaggeration. Then I moved to the east coast where I seemed to be struck down by some sort of horrible weeklong illness on an annual basis. Skip to the present where I have an almost two year old. Now it feels like a constant barrage of coughs, runny noses, stomach aches, and fevers.

My typical M.O. is to ignore all signs of impending illness, maybe even trying to prove that I'm not getting sick by staying up late, waking up early, and exercising particularly intensely. As you might expect, this phase pretty rapidly induces a moment of realization, at which point I float the idea of possibly being sick to my husband (and also my sister now that she's staying with us). Once my husband and sister confirm my diagnosis, I am officially a patient. I will admit to the fact that I am not a very good one (I may be prone to crankiness, whining, and sometimes tears when I'm under the weather and maybe that is exacerbated just a little bit by also being pregnant), but I blame that on inexperience. Lucky for me, I happen to be living with two exceptional caretakers.

With cold and flu season upon us, here are some little things you can give to those whose immune systems are falling short. In addition to just being a nice thing to do, you may find yourself getting a little extra TLC when you get struck by the cold or flu du jour. 

Do you know why homemade soup is the classic gift for an unwell friend? Because soup tastes awesome to sick people. Being sick myself, I know this firsthand. Soup may in fact be the only thing I've eaten for three days. Well, soup and cupcakes (but we're not going to talk about that). These three make me feel healthier just by looking at them: Indian Spiced Carrot Soup with Ginger, Green Soup with Ginger, and Golden Beet and Beet Greens Soup (pictured).

If you had said "tissue box cover" to me a few weeks ago, I would have pictured something beige, crocheted, and most likely spotted at someone's great aunt's house. Then I went to the Jonathan Adler warehouse sale where these were about $8. My husband likes to have kleenex in every room (guess who's not complaining about that now!) and I never realized how unattractive the boxes were until they were concealed by a white lacquered cube. Make sure to give one of these with a tissue box inside and a cute note. Just think, you'll be doing your part to make drippy noses a little more chic. 

We are slipper people, probably because we don't wear shoes in the house and our floors are cold. If you're trying to convince a shoe wearer to convert to slippers there is no better time than when he/she isn't feeling well. Who wants to wear shoes while sick? These shearling scuffs are just so much better. 

A stack of magazines or a great book are perfect gifts for someone who should be spending the day in bed. Assuming it's a good friend or family member, already read magazines are perfectly acceptable, just so long as they're recent issues and you haven't torn out all the good pages. That way you can save a tree and provide entertainment--look at you multi-tasking!

Have a lovely (and healthy) weekend! Maybe you can even fit in a flu shot for you and everyone in your household. Oh, and we have some fantastic posts in the works for next week, so see you then!

Thursday
Oct212010

An Easy Brunch

Does this ever happen to you:
You: "Honey, when are Joe and Sally coming over for brunch again?"
Honey: "Tomorrow, I think." [checks email] "Yeah, tomorrow at 10am."
You: "But its 11 o'clock at night now. What the f--- am I going to serve for brunch? [insert string of profanities here]"
Oh, it doesn't? Well. Me neither. And it definitely didn't happen to me last weekend. And I totally didn't use a string of profanities so foul I later worried that I had killed an angel or made the buddha's ears bleed or something.
But if it had happened, here's what I would have done. I would have packed Emi up to go to the farmer's market around 8, picked up apples, eggs, potatoes, and butter, stopped at the supermarket on the way back for some other provisions, and gone home and cooked the following:


Cheddar Apple Scones (via Smitten Kitchen)
[These are ridiculous. I want to make them and eat them again and again and again.]

Makes 6 generous scones
Ingredients:
2 firm tart apples
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 cup sugar plus 1 1/2 tablespoons for sprinkling
1/2 tablespoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt plus additional for egg wash
6 tablespoons unsalted butter, chilled and cut into 1/2-inch cubes plus additional for baking sheet if not lining it with parchment
1/2 cup sharp cheddar, shredded
1/4 cup  heavy cream
2 large eggs
Directions:
Position a rack at the center of oven and preheat oven to 375 °F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper.
Peel and core apples, then cut them into one-sixteenths. Placed them in a single layer on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper and bake them until they take on a little color and feel dry to the touch, about 20 minutes. They will be about half-baked. Let them cool completely. Leave oven on.
Sift or whisk flour, sugar, baking powder and salt together. Set aside. Place butter in the bowl of an electric mixer with a paddle attachment, along with cooled apple chunks, cheese, cream and one egg. Sprinkle flour mixture over the top and mix on low speed until the dough just comes together. Do not overmix.
[I don't have a hand mixer, so I rubbed the flour mixture into the butter until it had the feel of breadcrumbs, then mixed in the rest of the ingredients.]
Generously flour your counter top and place the scone dough on top of it. Sprinkle with flour. Use a rolling pin to gently roll the dough into a 1 1/4-inch thick, 6-inch circle. [I totally shaped this by hand. Shh.] Cut circle into 6 wedges. Transfer them to a baking sheet that has either been buttered or lined with a fresh sheet of parchment paper. Leave at least 2 inches between each scone.
Beat remaining egg in a small bowl with a pinch of salt. Brush the scones with egg wash and sprinkle them with remaining tablespoon of sugar. Bake until firm and golden, about 30 minutes. With a spatula, lift them to a wire rack to cool for 10 minutes.


Easy Breakfast Potatoes
Ingredients:
3 russet potatoes
9 cloves of garlic
1 medium yellow onion
rosemary (LOTS of rosemary. I used 3 or 4 big sprigs from my fire escape rosemary plant.)
salt & pepper
drizzle of olive oil
Directions:
[Since you're already making the scones, I assume that your oven is already preheated to 375. If it's not, do that now.] Cut the potatoes and onion into 1" chunks, and toss with the rest of the ingredients. Leave the garlic cloves whole (trust me), but just remove the little foot-y guy at the bottom. Bake for 45 minutes to an hour, tossing every 20 minutes or so.

Scramble some eggs, cook up some sausage if your guests happen to be the kind of folks who don't consider a meal a meal unless they've got meat on their plate, brew a pot of coffee, put on some music, and you've got an easy & delicious brunch. No swearing required.

Wednesday
Oct202010

Wednesday Miscellany

Hello friends! It's Wednesday already and I sure am glad. Our whole house came to the realization last night that it's not allergies, or too little humidity inside from the heater that's making us all feel so crummy. Nope, it's that we're all sick! I'm counting down the hours until we can start a cozy, low key weekend. Until then, there will be a whole lot of tea and cocoa drinking going on here. How about some internet distractions too:

What do these three things have in common? Visit this site to find out.

Loving these pumpkins. They reminded me of this faux pottery project that I've been meaning to try for ages now. 

Remember the You Are Special plate we wrote about here? Now you can get a prettified version.

Do you need an idea for an incredibly thoughtful, completely personalized, but not outrageously priced holiday gift. Three words: this is it


I wonder what recipe Stephanie has in store for us today as part of the Pretty Mommy recipe exchange. If the name of her blog is any indication, it's going to be scrumptious. 

Oh, and visit the phenomenal Trent Bailey's blog for a few hints about what we did on Monday afternoon. More to come soon, but be excited, very excited. 

Enjoy your Wednesday!

Tuesday
Oct192010

What are You Listening To?

 Hi Miya & Elisabeth,

I'm having my girlfriend's parents over for brunch and need some good music to play that a) is not offensive, and b) isn't something that you'd find playing in an elevator. Any thoughts?

xo,
D.

Hi D.,

I can't speak for Elisabeth, but here's some music I'm way into right now that also happens to be appropriate. After giving Elisabeth's daughter a CD with a song that drops the F-bomb multiple times for her first birthday, I got pretty good at screening music real quickly.
If your girlfriend's parents are/were into Kate Wolf (was that just a California thing?), consider Laura Gibson. She is an amazing Portland-based folk singer.

Do your girlfriend's parents always ask you what the kids are listening to these days, but then talk about how they miss melodic music? The cure for this, dear D., is The Avett Brothers. I would say that the closest genre is Folk-Rock(?), and they're a rocking good time.
My fail-safe, go-to, could-listen-to-it-all-day-every-day music is old-school soul. Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, and Solomon Burke (who just recently passed--it's a huge loss for the world) have all been in heavy rotation over here. Colin Meloy (he of The Decemberists) singing Sam Cooke is always one of my go-tos. And frankly, I feel like if your girlfriend's parents can't get down with Otis, then you might want to reconsider inviting them over.
Have fun at brunch (it's my favorite meal!); I'll be posting a killer brunch recipe on Thursday if you're feeling like you'd like some [home]fries to go with that shake (ba-dum-bum! I'll be here all week!).

xo,
ME*

p.s. If you, dear readers, have a question you'd like us to tackle, drop us a line at youplusmestyling{at}gmail{dot}com.