Diamond-Free Engagment Options

Dear You + ME*,
I am going to propose to my girlfriend, but she's not really into diamonds. I don't want to propose empty-handed. Any ideas for what I should do?
Thanks,
J.

Dear J.,
Congrats on your forthcoming engagement (we're sure she'll say yes)! Engagement rings are tough, but here are a few diamond-free ideas for you. Remember, nothing says you are bound to convention. We know you've already started picking up clues to what she might have in mind; don't feel like you have to take her "in mind" list to a traditional jewelry store. Maybe your honey likes variety and would like an assortment of rings to wear, or maybe she would like something that feels very modern now with the understanding that she'll switch it up if it starts feeling not-her-anymore, or maybe she doesn't want a ring, but instead wants a fantastic necklace.

If she likes to rock some big jewelry, but just isn't into diamonds for the ethical or cost reasons, there's no reason not to get her something that will be a conversation starter. After all, she's probably going to be just as excited as you to talk about your engagement.

Left: Limited Edition Black Druzy Ring, Maria Burgos (pointed out to me by Meg); Right 14k Lafemme ring with Chalcedony, Michelle Lenae

If she likes simple jewelry, I personally don't think that anything is as pretty as a simple band. Though I love my engagement and wedding rings, I have been coveting a simple gold band for everyday wear for a few years now. They're just so timeless and elegant.

Left: Brushed Gold Wedding Band, Hilliker; Right: dash, elephantine (How hard are these ladies killing it with their photography? I want to frame the picture on the right.)

If you are feeling like you'd just like to propose and have her help you pick something out (which is totally reasonable--jewelry is such a personal thing), you can propose with a placeholder ring, and then whisk her off to a jewelry store (or to sit in front of the computer with you, as the case may be--just don't forget to have a chilled bottle of champagne sitting by your keyboard!).

Left: Ring-A-Day, byAMT; Right: Engagement Ring Crayons, Kate's Lovely Crafts

Thanks for writing in, J., and good luck with your proposal!  If you need help making it special, that's one of our areas of expertise!
xo,
ME*

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